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Top of the Gift List: Me
Posted by Paul Freibott on December 14, 2006 - 11:00am.
Green Giving

You can't help others until you help yourself, and the same applies (or should) to gift giving. But self-directed gifts needn't be about greed or even self-indulgence. Below, LIME proposes five intentions, or novel ways to think about self-giving, plus 10 tangible gift suggestions that might help you lead a greener, more balanced, and more conscious life.

 

5 INTENTIONS

Give yourself permission. Allow yourself to try something new. Maybe you need permission to overcome the fear, laziness, or inertia that keeps you from making a positive change in your life.

Give yourself a challenge. Identify your goal and the steps needed to achieve it. Dream big!

Give yourself a break. Compassion starts at home. Go easy on yourself and realize that just trying is already a form of success.

Give yourself a hand. You can't build a house without a hammer and nails. Identify what help you might need to meet your goal, then go get it.

Give yourself a reward. Acknowledge what you've accomplished, even if you've only accomplished taking the first step. Congratulate yourself.

 

10 GIFTS

Give yourself a deeper yoga practice. Choose your path: a relaxing yoga vacation, an inspiring retreat at the renowned Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health, or a studio close to home. Get out of your rut with an intensive workshop on say, hip-openers, or a class in an unfamiliar style of yoga. Other gift ideas include switching to an eco-friendly yoga mat and props or reading the Yoga Sutra.

Give yourself guidance from the best. LIME Local can point you to several prominent retreat centers to help you get a head start on New Year's resolutions. Imagine: you can discover The Gift of Self-Compassion at The Crossings; learn about spinal health, spiritual massage, and the pristine natural wilderness of Big Sur at the Esalen Institute; or sign up for first notice of 2007 offerings at the Omega Institute in New York's beautiful Hudson Valley.

Give yourself a massage. Often misperceived as merely an indulgence, massage has many therapeutic benefits for physical and emotional health. It may even help you reduce certain medications. You'll want to research the different forms—Swedish, for example, relaxes, while Shiatsu energizes—and then find a therapist near you. Try your health insurance provider's website, LIME Local, the American Massage Therapy Association's locator service, or one of Dr. Andrew Weil's low-cost massage suggestions. Do an easy Ayurvedic self-massage to truly give yourself this gift.

Give yourself a spa day. Why wait until January 2 to detox and beautify inside and out? If you look and feel great during the holidays, you may think twice about gorging on eggnog and fruitcake. Two mindful, nontoxic options are the Ayurvedic spa therapies at The Chopra Center for Well Being and detoxifying hydrotherapy at Miraval Resort. The complementary and alternative health section of SpaFinder.com may also be helpful.

Give yourself an outdoor thrill. Hike in the woods, make snow angels, or toss a ball around outdoors to get your blood pumping and your spirits up this winter. For bigger outdoor thrills (with or without the chill), environmental groups can point you to first-rate ecotourism options ranging from rainforests in Belize to polar bears in the Arctic. The Nature Conservancy's Conservation Journeys, Sierra Club Outings, Natural Habitat Adventures, and National Wildlife Federation's Expeditions will help you meet and greet the planet you care so much about saving.

Give yourself a healthy, home-cooked meal. What could be more generous than spending an afternoon at home cooking your favorite meal, or trying out an exciting new recipe? By using all local, organic ingredients, you'll also give back to the planet and community. Just type your zip code into numerous online tools to find the freshest foods from local farmers' markets, CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) farms, food co-ops, community gardens, grocery stores, and sustainable meat, egg, and dairy providers. For one-stop shopping, SustainableTable.org and LocalHarvest.org list many of the above all in one place.

Give yourself a cleaner home (and a clearer mind). De-cluttering your home will help you de-clutter your mind, so that you can focus on what's important. If you're overwhelmed by the thought of doing it yourself, there's no shame in hiring a personal organizer and no shortage of them either. But if you're up for the challenge, here's an easy checklist: 1) make cleaning day a commitment-put it on your calendar; 2) as you sort through clutter, ask yourself, "Does this still serve me?" If not, get rid of it; 3) make your newly cleared surfaces spiffy with eco-friendly cleaning products.

Give yourself a good laugh. Practice finding joy in something every day, no matter how small. If you could use help, buy tickets to a comedy club or try laughter yoga. One scientific study found that sadness actually reduces arterial blood flow, so if not for the fun of it, do it for a healthier heart.

Give yourself a good night's sleep. Quality zzz's are the ultimate reward of modern life, but they can be elusive. Rodney Yee offers quick video tips on breathing, meditation, and yoga (right here on LIME, free!) to help you clear your head before laying it on a pillow. Dr. Andrew Weil's MindBody Tool Kit also includes tips on achieving a sounder sleep, among other things. You might also sleep better knowing you're lying on a nontoxic organic mattress or organic bedding.

Give yourself the gift of time. Maybe not planning a retreat, spa day, or yoga workshop would make you feel happier and more emotionally balanced. Take time to do nothing, to rejuvenate, to let go of expectations, and to be with loved ones. Happy holidays!



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<em>FairTradeSports</em>'s picture
Give yourself a healthier mind/body
by FairTradeSports on November 20, 2006 - 11:42am

Consider giving yourself the gift of a healthier mind, body, and spirit by taking up that favorite sport again from your youth. Every city has open, friendly recreation leagues, no matter the sport. Get out there and enjoy the camaraderie and sociable competition that can lift your spirits and send you away with a healthier mind and body.

 

-Scott James

Fair Trade Sports 


<em>founderofinfogatherer</em>'s picture
Great ways to chill in an inexpensive but cool way
by founderofinfoga... on November 20, 2006 - 12:29pm
Tips that we ALL can afford somehow, As I often say: it is not only how much money you have that directs what you can do, but how you use it, even more...

 

1)   Go to a public park:  take some fresh air, even with the kids...Breathe in...Breathe out...Often, not to be in front of the TV gives you more clarity...Just for the fact that you are not flooded with TV ads...

 

2)   Go to a Library Bookshop: buy a book or a few and read...

a)   By buying it there you give money to the library.

b)   To read usually calms you down.

 

 3)   Volunteer in an animal shelter:

 Animals gives good vibes, and, in a way, you get in touch with yourself just taking that unconditional love.

 

 4)   Candles...and quiet...

Candles are cheap nowadays. Buy some, possibly in a Holistic  or 'Green" shop (as it is good money invested there)  and choose an evening: light them up, no TV, maybe cool relaxing music (no songs) and just relaaaaaaaaaaaaaax!

5)   A fun movie

Libraries got them too...for cheap...and make an evening of it. Laugh your worries away!

 6)   Learn to say NO:
 

Too much work? You MUST go then 2 steps forward, one backward: even if it is for 2 to 3 hours: being more rested equals better good vibes...

 


<em>dreamymo</em>'s picture
thanks for the reminder
by dreamymo on November 20, 2006 - 5:00pm

 

 "being more rested equals better good vibes... "

this is always good to re-hear and then act against. we know it but warrants repeating - thanks.


<em>Chris</em>'s picture
I definetly need to listen to some of this advice
by Chris on November 20, 2006 - 4:31pm

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Self care gifts
by tommy on November 20, 2006 - 8:17pm

Great Links Hope I don't loose it off my computer

Sheri


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tommy
by Chris on November 21, 2006 - 12:09am
use the add to favorites button at the top of this article, that way it will be added to your profile and you will always be able to find it.

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