I am a 52 years young, 4 grown kids, last just entered freshman in college and I don't know what to do with my life so I'm reaching and discovering.  I am witty, love to write, kind, quirky, and hopelessly devoted to my children. I have discovered that I am a very unique artist and I paint incredible and unique wooden chairs and stools for interest and fun.  I love animals of all kinds, have 3 dogs, a psycho bunny. I am entering a new phase and a brand new job at a university that I want to really do a great job at. I love to read about healing, fun stories, strength, real people on real issues and relationships.  I would like to understand more in life.  Am married to world's nicest man for 30 years and am learning a more spiritual connection and the promise not to choke my incredibly wonderful young daughter's wild boyfriend.  Yeah, I could use a little lime today - preferrably in a margarita.  I just really want to listen to adults speak their good wisdom that I could take.  Ok, what do I do now to become a listener?