February's here, which means the Valentine's-Day-industrial-complex has shifted into high gear. Not that chocolates and heart-shaped sentiments are evil, but if you're seeking a deeper love and stronger relationships that don't involve trips to Venus or Mars, these six books are a good start.
Classic
In How to Expand Love: Widening the Circle of Loving Relationships, His Holiness the Dalai Lama names seven steps you can take towards the experience of limitless love in all human relationships-not just romantic ones. All love, he says, begins and ends with the self. (A true "classic" from the Tibetan spiritual leader would be The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living, but both books offer the core lessons of Buddhism.)
Over the weekend, I did what I sometimes do––I worried myself into a state that made everything seem overwhelming and impossible, then beat myself up for getting there. I’m usually pretty good about remembering that it passes, observing from a slight distance, etc., but this one had me blind. So I unwrapped Getting Unstuck by Pema Chödrön, a spoken-word CD, and listened.
Author and Columbia University professor Robert Thurman talks about what Buddhism offers American culture that psychology cannot - a way to achieve an emotionally balanced life that acknowledges the existence of the soul and our emotional connections to one another.
A peculiar relationship It's no secret that Science and Buddhism have been having an affair. During last month's Mind & Reality Symposium at Columbia University, scientists and Buddhists co-mingled, explored, and sought definition for their curious enounters. How can the two systems of knowledge forge a working, mutually benefitial relationship? For years now Buddhism has been popping up in science.
Author and Buddhist scholar Robert Thurman talks about the dangers of religious conflict in today’s world. He explores the Buddhist philosophy of compassion and morality and explains how you can be Buddhist and follow another religion at the same time.
An increasing number of Westerners who embrace Buddhism and Hinduism are Jewish. “Rodger Kamenetz, the author of The Jew in the Lotus, says, ‘A third of all Western Buddhist leaders come from Jewish roots,
Interests: Parenting (Jack 5yrs and Owen 3yrs), Human Growth and Development, Evolving Consciousness, Integral Life Practice, Coaching, Change Management, Creativity, and Freedom.
Inspiration: Witnessing my sons discovering the world and themselves, watching someone overcome all odds, listening to someone's deep dark secrets (and telling someone mine), a fully expressed performer, art, the rawness of humanity, and unconditional love.