By Amelia Glynn
I once subscribed to the “no-pain-no-gain” school of thought. If it
didn’t make sweat pour from my brow and my heart leap from my chest, it
wasn’t worth doing. Going to a 90-minute, chaturanga-filled Ashtanga
yoga class was only permissible if I had also run (at least) five miles
earlier that day. Fast equaled good. Slow was bad.
Bodywork was the same. If I wasn’t sucking in my breath and clenching my jaw, it wasn’t deep enough.
Not until searing stomach pains and nighttime panic attacks became
weekly events did I start to shift my thinking. Like many people, I’d
tried lots of methods to “fix” myself — over-the-counter and
prescription remedies, aggressive massage and chiropractic treatments,
more running and more (even sweatier) yoga. All the “fast stuff” was
helping me blow off steam, but it somehow wasn’t making me feel
healthier. I was ready for something different, but what?
By accident, I discovered yin yoga when I misread my studio’s class
schedule. “I’ll just have to run when I get home,” I told myself.
Afterwards, I was so relaxed that I opted for studying the backs of my
eyelids instead. A few weeks later, a friend referred me to a somatic
therapist and I started seeing a Chi Nei Tsang practitioner (also a
referral) for my stomach stuff. Maybe slow was the way to go.
Somatic Psychotherapy, Chi Nei Tsang, The Rosen Method, The Alexander
Technique, Feldenkrais, Craniosacral Therapy and Yoga Therapy are all,
at their foundation, “non-doing” practices. This means that they help
guide the body back to its most natural and neutral state. This isn’t
to say that to heal you need to toss “fast and sweaty” aside for a
snail-paced existence. Instead, it’s about recognizing that huge shifts
(physical, emotional, and energetic) can happen through very subtle
movement and touch.
Many people come to these modalities as a last resort — often because
they’ve never heard of them before. Each requires patience, a solid
commitment to change, and the willingness to turn up the volume on our
own self-awareness. And while the information here only scratches the
surface, I hope it will inspire you to explore further.
Chi Nei Tsang
Also known as Chinese Abdominal Massage, Chi Nei Tsang (pronounced
chee-nay-song) is a form of deep abdominal massage with Taoist Chinese
origins. It literally means “working the energy of the internal organs”
or “internal organs chi transformation,” and it’s based on the
assumption that emotions first arise (and often get “stuck”) in our
bellies and internal organs. (For example, anger is associated with the
liver and worry is linked with the spleen.)
I started seeing Bay Area Chi Nei Tsang practitioner Jada Delaney (jadabug.com)
after battling a long history of debilitating digestive and menstrual
pain. I was completely divorced from my belly and was uncomfortable
having it touched by anyone — myself included. After an hour of
Delaney’s gentle and intuitive touch I felt my stomach go from rock
hard to soft and pliable. I was surprised to realize how infrequently I
breathed into my belly on a daily basis. Even more astonishing was my
ability to find comfort and relief from something so simple when I had
previously been resigned to suffering. “No one has the power to heal
you in the way you can heal yourself,” says Delaney.
How It Works: Chi Nei Tsang practitioners massage the abdominal
area using intention and deep, gentle touches to purge unwanted
emotional charges from the body and remind us of our optimal state.
What to Expect: Clients wear loose fitting clothing and lie on a
massage table. Sessions typically last about an hour. Homework can
include changes in physical activity or nutrition and self-massage.
Recommended Dosage: Some clients experience huge breakthroughs
in one session, but three to four is generally enough to feel an
immense difference.
Average Cost: $75–$120
How to Find a Practitioner: Visit chineitsang.com or pick up a copy of Unwinding the Belly, by Allison Post (unwindingthebelly.com).
Somatic Therapy
Somatic Therapy helps us listen to our own body’s wisdom. If you have
been in therapy for years, talking circles around the same relationship
and work-related issues, but still don’t see and feel the results that
you are looking for, Somatic therapy could be for you.
“When we are connected to our body, we can make decisions from the cues
it gives us rather than from external pressures,” explains San
Francisco–based somatic practitioner Charna Cassell
(passionatelife.org). “We can start to pay attention to the tightness
we feel in our belly when we spend time with that new person we’re
dating, or the expansiveness in our chest that signals something feels
right.”
How It Works: Somatic Therapy supports shifts in our somatic
shape through talking, embodiment and experiential practices, deep
breathing, and gentle bodywork. “By opening connective tissue and
breath we can begin to reoccupy parts of our bodies that we’ve
abandoned and feel a wider range of emotion and sensation,” says
Cassell.
“We use the body as the primary tool to gain insight into who we are
and to learn how to stay connected to the deepest parts of ourselves,”
adds Somatic Psychotherapist and long time yoga teacher and
practitioner Devorah Sacks.
She emphasizes that although touch can be an important part of this
practice, it’s not necessary if it doesn’t feel comfortable to the
client.
What to Expect: Each 50-minute session is likely to be markedly
different from the next. Your therapist may walk you through an
embodiment practice that can be as simple as noticing when your jaw
feels tight. Or they might suggest an experiential exercise (also
called standing practices) to help illuminate your response to
situations that pull you off center. Unlike traditional talk therapy,
Somatic therapists will sometimes self-disclose, but only when it helps
to facilitate the client’s own process of awareness and discovery.
Recommended Dosage: Because the practice builds momentum over time, it is common to see a Somatic therapist once a week for a year or more.
Average Cost: $70–$120. Many Somatic therapists offer a sliding scale.
How to Find a Therapist: The California Institute of Integral
Studies (CIIS), John F. Kennedy University (JFKU), and Naropa
University all have alumni directories. You may want to visit traumahealing.com/registry.html. Sacks recommends calling a prospective therapist and asking to schedule a brief phone interview before making an appointment.
Interests: Anything with an ING: dancing, biking, listening, talking, writing, reading, watching, eating, drinking, running, thinking, working, dreaming, surrendering, laughing, smiling, acting, traveling, singing, surfing, driving, shopping, thanking, observing, welcoming, connecting, loving, learning, sharing, practicing, asking. I love supermarkets in other places, lyrics to songs, seeking out gluten free food, responding to questions and surveys, finding deals and bargains, doing public relations for anyone/anything I believe in, good conversation, sociological observation, the beach, early mornings, condiments and spices, vitamins and minerals, alternative medicine, nutrition, holistic health, fitness gum, coffee drinking, gun chewing and sitting in the steam room.
Inspiration: Books: Letters to a Young Poet, Rainer Maria Rilke
Music: Linkin Park and The Cure
People: My mother and all of those that have come before me that have fought their own battles and didn't give up.
Places: Carl Schurz Park, New York, NY
Movies: In Search of a Midnight Kiss, Stealing Beauty, Beautiful Girls, When A Man Loves a Woman, In America, Magdelene Sisters, The Notebook, Run Fat Boy Run
Things: Causes worth fighting for: Lupus and other auto-immune disorders, Organ Donation and impoverished and at-risk youth.
Zero balancing is a brilliant modality that falls into this category of "non-doing." To find out more check out www.zerobalancing.com, and find a practitioner near you. It is truly great work.
Ben Fleisher, LMT
www.benfleisher.com